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“The first and greatest sin or the deception of television is that it simplifies -- it diminishes. Great, complex ideas, trenches of time, entire careers are reduced to a single snapshot.”

James Reston, Jr.

 

ASIAN GREETINGS: Say hello in Chinese, Japanese..

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Asian Greeting phrases

© Zak Keith, 2009


How to say hello to Japanese, Chinese, Koreans, Thais, Vietnamese, Cambodians...

Greeting Asian clients who wander into your place of work?

Ae you making assumptions about someone's language? So you think you can tell the difference between Chinese, Japanese & Koreans? Then try this test at AllLookSame.com

QUESTION: How do you greet an Asian person? How do you say hello to an Asian person?

 

THE SHORT ANSWER:

When in Rome, do as the Romans do. If you want to be polite to Asians, just say hello like you would say hello to anyone else—in the language of the country you’re in! If you're in an English-speaking country, greet Asian strangers in English, and so on.

 

THE TRUTHFUL ANSWER:

Don't Patronize me with Asian phrases! Do not assume to know what my language must be. My mother tongue could well be English, French, etc. Asians have been integrated in the West for Centuries! Stop arrogantly assigning exotic foreigner status to every Asian you see! Do not assume they ought to understand or appreciate your cheap phrases in: Chinese, Thai, Japanese, Korean... or whatever else you decide must be their language!

If you are face-to-face with perfect strangers in your own country, attempting to say hello to an Asian person in “their own language” is a bad idea. Don’t do it unless:

  • you want to take the 99% chance of offending them
  • you want to be patronizing
  • you’re the ignorant kind who believes everyone with Asian looks in the West must be a foreigner
  • you’re ignorant enough to believe language that is inseparable from ethnicity
  • you are an assumptive racist who believes culture is inseparable from genetics
  • you’re so proud of your ability to recite one word or phrase in a foreign language
  • you like to initiate dead-end “conversations”
  • you like sinking to the level of an Amsterdam red-light district tout

Otherwise, it's best not to assume to know what someone’s language must be based on their looks.

THE ANSWER YOU MIGHT PREFERbut still what NOT to say to a total stranger:

Mandarin Chinese: Nee-how

Japanese: Konichiwa

Korean: Ahn Neyong Ha Seyo

Thai: Sawadee-kahp (as spoken by male) Sawadee-ka (as spoken by female or effeminate male)


THE LONG ANSWER YOU MAY NOT WANT TO HEAR:

So you think you can tell the difference between Chinese, Japanese & Koreans? Then try this test at AllLookSame.com

“I've had people try to impress me with a Thai phrase, a Japanese phrase, something in Chinese, Korean, Malay, Tagalog... What these oafs have no clue about is that you could swear at this Chinaman in Chinese—the “right” language—and he’d never flinch. To top it off, he’s probably the only chink in town who can’t even handle a lousy pair of chopsticks. Not very Chinese, you could say, but what you see is not always what you get. While most people think of me as a friendly guy, this ignorance gets old real fast and I am known to retaliate.”

—Zak Keith, author of My Life as a Squint-eyed Chink

Shopkeepers, hotel staff and restaurant workers in tourist districts around the world seem to think it’s such a great idea to greet people in their own language. Hotel management schools and educators in the tourist and hospitality industry actually encourage this. But it may surprise you to know, although it shouldn’t in this day and age, that saying hello to perfect strangers in what you assume to be “their own language” can be a very bad idea. Apart from the fact that it is annoying, people generally hate being mistaken for someone of a different nationality. The fact is that longstanding animosities exist between nations and people tend to despise their closest neighbors. There are countless examples: a Chinese person will generally hate being mistaken for a Japanese and vice versa, just as a Greek person would not appreciate it if someone decided they ought to speak Turkish and started greeting them with Merhaba.

There is a time and place for everything: If you’re traveling abroad and meeting locals, you should of course learn to greet them in the local language. If you’re visiting an Asian person in their home and you know what their language is exactly, then by all means, go for it! If you are receiving a conference group comprising visitors from a specific Asian country, then do learn to greet them in their own tongue.

In the words of this "Asian":

“Unless you're in Asia, to try out Asian phrases on every Asian stranger you see in the West is a way of collectively ‘othering’ Asians, of creating a them-us dynamic. It is patronization borne of exotification. It is pro-active marginalization of a minority, a subtle reminder to Asian individuals that ‘you are different, you are still not one of us.’

“It's a subtle reinforcement of cultural rights and ownership vs disenfranchisement: ‘my language is English (or Swedish, etc.) whereas yours has to be something else.’

“It is stating that by virtue of their skin color or looks, all Asians are foreigners by default, like a fish out of water, and you expect them to be appreciative of your magnanimous gestures of reaching out to them in their own language. It is a reflection of the worldview that Asians in the West are foreigners in your midst. It is social branding, the automatic assignment of eternal foreigner status to all Asians. It is a citizen vs. non-citizen dynamic, borne of the idea that all Asians are never truly 100% intergrated or assimilable and will always have inseverable allegiances and ties to a culture of their own. It is the idea that Asians are steeped in traditions and will never really change or adapt.

“It is asserting the belief that culture and language are limited by or inseparable from genetics—which is pure racism. It is the arrogant assumption that French/English/Swedish/etc. cannot possibly be an Asian-looking person's mother tongue, because with their genetic makeup, they must belong to another language and culture.”

However, it’s a whole different situation when you meet a perfect stranger—anyone you perceive to be a foreigner in your own country—that’s when you shouldn’t assume to know who they are (their nationality and/or language) just by looking at them. Do not try out your cheap phrases on total strangers!

Only assume. It’s one thing if you’ve already ascertained someone’s nationality or heard them speaking and recognize their language, but it is a bad idea to assume what a person’s language must be just by looking at them. It’s 2009—populations get displaced and people have been moving around for centuries! They can look one way and come from somewhere else. An Asian-looking person might be a fourth-generationer born in the West, and will find it extremely annoying that perfect strangers are constantly trying to impress them with phrases in Japanese, Chinese, Thai, Korean, Tagalog, etc., assuming that their language cannot possibly be English or German or French. They are victims of perpetual foreigner syndrome, regarded as inherently inassimilable no matter how many generations they’ve been living in the West. Trust me, they will not appreciate your “friendly” gesture!

Certainty is the mother of fools. There is a category worse than : those who are cock-sure about their infallibility on differentiating between Japanese, Chinese, Korean, Thai, Vietnamese, Filipino, Malaysian, Indonesian, etc. If you think you really can too, try this test at AllLookSame.com. I’ve been told I “must be Japanese” because of my beard and because the “Chinese don’t have beards,” that I am “absolutely 100% Thai” because of my complexion, that I am “surely a Filipino” because I’m a musician who speaks good English, that I “must have” Korean blood because I look exactly like some Korean person they know, etc. The truth is that even Asians themselves make mistakes and can’t always tell who is who. Genetically, there is five times more variation within races than there are differences between races. In other words, there is no way you can really tell when it comes down to it, especially since Chinese and Japanese technically belong to the same “race.”

REMEMBER: culture, ethnicity and nationality are separable things! In English-speaking USA, it’s as a rule best to greet Asian-looking people in English. In Germany, greet Asians in German; in France, greet Asians in French, etc. Do not make the mistake of (even subconsciously) seeing Asians as automatically foreign, or inassimilable, or non-citizens by virtue of their race; do not assume that English, German or French, etc. cannot be their own language. Do not assume you are doing them any favors to “feel more at home” if they hear their “own” language. All you will be doing is “othering” them and highlighting your own simplemindedness, because all you are capable of seeing before you is a foreigner, simply because they have a different skin color.
© Zak Keith, 2009

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